Women go from themselves to two people and then to a family, life is about moving forward in constant role changes; however, after marriage, it is not just a matter of two people.

After marriage, women are both wives and daughter-in-laws. If they become pregnant and become mothers, it is a permanent responsibility.

{9 was surprised by the "accidental" words and actions of a newlywed netizen in the marriage version of "Dcard": "Every time I think of my mother-in-law's "accidental" words and actions, I feel disgusted."

She said that one time at a family dinner at her husband's family, there was a very young pregnant relative who looked very big. She looked like she had a big belly and should have a child next month. When everyone was about to eat, she prepared to pick up the food on the table, so the mother-in-law of the former PO asked the pregnant relative: "Is it what you want to eat? Or is it helping your husband?"

The pregnant woman replied that she wanted to eat herself.

Why can’t pregnant women say they want to eat? The original PO's incredible description, as a result, my mother-in-law Gao Odd said proudly: "How can you say you want to eat? You say it's the baby in your stomach that wants to eat!"

Although my mother-in-law said it as a joke, the other party laughed awkwardly because she was not familiar with her mother-in-law, and she didn't reply. After hearing this, the original PO was silently surprised in her heart: "Can't pregnant women say they want to eat it? Are pregnant women not humans? Why do they say it is the treasures in their stomachs?" The mother-in-law's words made her feel very uncomfortable.

The testimony "the mother disappeared", and the original PO pointed out that he had known before that Taiwanese society is prone to unfriendly women after pregnancy, as if "the mother disappeared"! It seems that after pregnancy, I only live for the children in my stomach. My mother’s own preferences and habits have become unimportant. My mother’s existence is only for the baby, which is super humble and sluggish!

"I didn't expect that my mother-in-law's accidental speech made me realize the terribleness of "the disappearance of the mother's body", which made me look forward to having my own child, and I didn't want to have a child at all!"

At the end of the article, she also said that she just married her husband and didn't have to have a child soon, but she felt that she was terrible in her heart. She felt that this kind of attitude was not very good, so she asked how netizens should be suitable...

Netizen: Did my husband die on the spot? After reading the article, netizens replied: "Honey, did my wife die on the spot when she was pregnant?", "Every time I see this, I feel like a dude!", "I will only marry my daughter to the fetus when I was slaughtered in junk food."

A netizen taught: "I will smile back to him, and one person eats it and two people supplement it", "In fact, if you change your mind, I won't care about other people's words, just forget it after hearing it", "I will send the pregnant person: 'Eat more hey'", "I will directly say that mother is happy and has a good baby, and mother wears more clothes .”

A netizen also shared that her good friend complained after giving birth to her first child: "Everyone asks me what new birth gifts my baby needs? Why is it for Baobao? I am the one who produces it, and I am the one who is tired!" So she gave her an LV bag without saying a word, which made her friends laugh so hard that they couldn't hold their mouths. (Note: Life is colorful!)

And the past also said: "I will lose myself even more after giving birth...", "After marriage, I become Mrs. X, and after having children, I become a mother X. If I want to keep my original self, I may only be at the job site or when I go back to my parents' home."

In fact, mother-in-law is a joke. Sometimes the old man speaks very quickly and listens late. The editor does not recommend directly talking to her mother-in-law (unless the other party is too far apart). Like netizens, they come out to pick up dishes for pregnant women to relax. It is both warm and can resolve embarrassment. Maybe it is a good choice. What do you think?

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