Are you helpless about your bad weather, and you can't ignore donuts?

Did you notice that most of us say our lives as if we are uncontrollable or have no authority to dislike it? Especially in areas where we are not particularly proud of. When we mention ourselves, we will say it as if we are predicting the weather, which is a singular summary as "I am very ignorant of money", "I don't say anything when I meet strangers" or "I'm not the kind of person who wakes up early". I call our voice a gas broadcaster. This is a very helpless sound. This is just broadcasting someone's life, and he is not responsible; for example: "There will be blasting snow on the east coast tomorrow, so it is best to wear warmer." Since the air broadcaster cannot control the weather, facing the blasting snow, he can only describe the situation that is about to happen, prepare, and secretly pray for everything to be successful.

But we really believe in our "broadcasting". So when facing the storm "Kate" or "×××" (fill in your name), we can't do anything, except for 70% delay, plus a 30% chance to eat the cob of Chito. Have you started hearing the ghost stories we used to cheat ourselves?

Believe me. If you tried to quit eating donuts three times and failed every time (ahem), and a passerby walked over on the street and pressed the gun against your head and said, "Eat another donut and you will die." What do you think will happen? Do you think you still "will" or "can't" not go to the donuts?

Of course you will, and you can quit.

When you tell your life like a propaganda, as if it was not under your control, saying "I have no choice, I am such a person." But if you are not self-conscious, you will not be able to find your own strength. However, if you can listen to your nonsense, you have a chance to get out of trouble. You will take a few different approaches. For example, the old man actually put down the donuts, went to the gym, had sex with his partner after twenty years of marriage, learned Italian, asked for an opportunity to go to the job, or, for example, he couldn't wait to get up in a bell.

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We just have so much power to control ourselves, but generally speaking, we don't think we are our own gay reporters. Of course, sometimes you can't handle your "game", for example, you are 158 cm tall and want to join the New York Nick team (and let my dad cheer you on). But besides this obvious example, you are completely responsible for your life direction and development, that's it.

If you are really the author of your life and control everything, including the good and bad parts, then you can roll up your sleeves and start doing something for yourself.

You can change everything.

Hide and do secretly

Each of our brain has a small voice that keeps evaluating everything that happens in our lives. Yet most of us are so busy or absent-minded that we don’t see how this sound manages our lives or makes decisions for us. We heard this sound over the days and didn't know where it came from or what the motor behind it was. No matter it, most people think that this inner voice is ourselves.

The good news is that it is not.

This sound is paying attention to you, it destroys your dreams and creates excuses for things that don't work in your life. The two biggest sounds in your brain are the slut and the slut. In Chapter 1, these two have undoubtedly said something unheard of to you about your ability to write dreams. By distinguishing, identifying and determining the sounds in our brains, we can hear clearly what they say, understand the negative effects they bring in our lives, and even start to be humorous.

The Little Devil

Not surprisingly, the Little Devil is the terrifying sound in our brains. It is both scared and worried. This sound is not loud in a field where you are good at it, or even in a field where you are afraid to act. However, in the realm of your fear, worry, or worry, this slut will give birth to a plan to keep you safe. Its mission is to ensure that you have a way out and an exit to escape. It will expect in advance the problem that may arise. It collects all the data you have in your life to support its silly theory. Although the sense of history presented by the slut in your heart is indeed distorted, it can tell a story at any time, allowing you to slow down when facing situations that it thinks are a bit risky, such as looking forward to appointments, asking for a raise, telling your companion what you want to do in bed. This is not stupid, but destined to bring failure. This is agility, not wanting to cause trouble, and he is willing to watch the dream slip away, or start to make a move when there is danger or discomfort. The slut is conservative and sad, and not as real as it sounds. Its primary job is to measure all options so that you are protected in your life, regardless of whether a safe life may lack fun, happiness and pride.

The numerous excuses of the slut seem to be very clear, wise and super reasonable, but in fact, the slut is just a slut.

Taoqi Ghost

No surprise, the Taoqi Ghost is the voice of the child in your brain that is irritating, obscene and domineering. That is the adult version of the tantrum of the four-year-old child. The Taoist ghost is very solid, loves to manipulate people, and is always in a scheming situation. If you either want to get what it wants, you will want to let you not do something. What Tao Gu loves the most is tomorrow. Sometimes it will work harder than competing for an Oliori to get a promotion. I dare say that your gambler even likes life is not smooth. After all, you're worth a cup of Matini on a day of trouble, right? Have you noticed that in the days of unsuccessfulness, you never deserved a salad? If you only feed your celery, how long do you think your bad mood will last? If your gum doesn't get the rewards of alcohol, smoke, or chasing the sand, how many unsuccessful days do you think it can withstand?

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