The idea of the Qingming Festival should be simple or follow tradition, and the idea of being young and being the older is different.

Send off the New Year to welcome the New Year, and the spring wine is awake, and the Lantern Festival is reported. It is finally time for lovers to finish their mouths. The Qingming Festival is not free to worship ancestors. It is only after the Qingming Festival is cleaned up, and Pudu is killed again in the middle of July. Even if you sweat and get lost, you can’t avoid giving gifts to the Mid-Autumn Festival; Autumn goes to winter and get older, and the cycle of life is constantly changing.

Go to the door to pay New Year's greetings from your home, rub the soup circles from your left and right houses, help the elderly and the young and take a knife, go up the mountain to weed and cemetery... As traditional customs have evolved to this day, everything can be operated through the virtual world of the Internet and has gradually become a rational business behavior. The

ceremony is no longer important, and the intention is just a peaceful explanation. What is the arrival of Generation E? What does it mean to be a trend? Or are the elderly helplessly cooperating and working under the current situation of less birth?

A friend complained to me with pain that one day she mentioned to her son that after a hundred days, I wonder if her daughter-in-law will remember her death day or worship her on the Qingming Festival? The result was a stimulating answer. My daughter-in-law said, "Mother-in-law, don't you always think that my food is not delicious? Why do you want to continue eating after you die?" My son replied even more: "Mom! Don't worry, I will order a full-time banquet online for you to enjoy, and there are discounts for the group purchase."

I am a person who uses "the gifts cannot be forgotten", but I have to take advantage of the traditional Chinese festivals that are superstitious and business-oriented.

Taking the example of the ceremonial gifts, the fragrant flowers and fruits worshipped by Buddhism, as well as the Christian singing and memorial service, all reached a simple, strict and peaceful state, which is worthy of reservation. As for the team, electronic car, filial daughter Baiqin, canned mountain, gold paper and wardrobe, etc., I can't even take it for 70 years and feel it's too long and too tiring.

At the time, a wedding banquet was popular. The bride had to change three sets of gift clothes and took ten wedding photos that cost tens of thousands of yuan and were well-made. It was actually incredible, because after the wedding, the bride would not take a look at the costumes and photos.

In Taiwan, there is no respect for the two important topics of life and death. The woman is concerned with personal privacy and is also the process of life struggle. It is the urgent respect for personal privacy, but women who have experienced production experience cannot escape the dream of lying coldly in the waiting room and being slaughtered.

Similarly, patients who are dying or staying in a state of dying have long been on the side before they have stopped or obtained a doctor's death certificate, and have even opened up noise to fight for business. The attitude of pushing the body to peace is like taking out garbage, completely forgetting the great basic respect of the dead.

The end of life makes people look like a fragile and easy to touch the reef. The drifting is either unreliable or reliable, or it is to drive to an uninhabited island. Therefore, when you are alive, you might as well open as possible, and do not put too much inexplicable pressure on yourself. As long as you are safe after death, you will not give unnecessary burden to the living. Can you really sit up and taste the whole banquet after death?

Book introduction

Huang Yueyu's solution strategy: look at life from a different perspective, change the mindset

Author: Huang Yueyu

Publisher: Taiwan Business

Publishing Date: 2019/11/01

Author Introduction/Huang Yueyu

is a single mother of three children, and a writer with only works. Professional marriage and family counselor, a judiciary at the Philippine University Public Administration (MPA) Management, a researcher at the Oriental Ethnic Foundation of Harvard University, a member of the American Psychological Treatment Association (ACA), a member of the American Marriage and Family Therapeutic Association (AAMFT), a lecturer at the American Psychological Development Foundation, and a host of TV and TV programs.

In his early years, he devoted himself to health activities, and enthusiastic about public welfare. In 1995, he established the "International Single Children's Cultural and Educational Foundation of Financial Groups" and established the "Ma Lijia Family" that houses unmarried mothers and weak children and girls who have lost their responsibilities, giving weak people the power to be reborn in the transformation of their lives. Author: What is Marriage? 》, "Another exam for parents' photos", "Huang Yue's unexpected life", "Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law's Learning Questions", "Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law" and other works.